What it means when he doesn’t call or text for days

When a guy doesn’t call or text you anymore, it’s going to hurt especially if you’re interested in him. You thought he was different from the other guys you dated before. So why did he disappear from your life without saying a word? You need to know that this happens to many women. You meet a handsome boy and you see the potential for him to become your boyfriend. A few days later, he goes silent and doesn’t text or call you. It’s like you never existed. There are reasons why he has shut up and is no longer calling or texting you. This does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Here are some reasons why you don’t text or call for days.

1. He is not calling or texting because you are busy

Know that the world doesn’t revolve around you when it comes to boys. This is common, especially when you don’t know each other very well. Even more so if you just met. He could be a very busy guy and that’s why he hasn’t contacted you in a while. When you don’t call or text, it doesn’t mean they’ve lost interest in you. Just think that there is no need to keep texting and calling you all the time. You must understand that there are some types that are like this. He will contact you when he has time. When the two of you get to know each other better, he will create time to spend more time getting to know you.

2. He is out of town

We live in an age where people are on their phones all the time. So when a guy doesn’t text you or doesn’t call you, it makes you suspicious. You wonder why he is silent. It could be out of town like in another country and the service there is bad. He won’t be able to contact you and let you know he’s not around, even when he wants to. If you find out that he has traveled, you hope he informed you sooner. However, if he’s not her boyfriend and they’re getting to know each other, there’s a good chance he won’t tell you. He’ll just leave town and then call or text you when he returns without explaining his silence. Know that guys can be weird that way.

 

3. He is not always on the phone

There are people who do not like to use telephones to communicate, especially if they are older. They prefer to have a face-to-face conversation. If your guy or boyfriend is this guy, then you shouldn’t worry when he doesn’t call or text. He is looking forward to seeing you again so you can continue your conversation in person. Just relax and stop reading too much in their silence.

4. He has a girlfriend

The reason he’s not texting or calling you anymore is that he has a girlfriend. He has been silent since his girlfriend is back in town or is now spending time with her. It’s unsettling when a guy shuts up after constantly calling and texting you without giving you a reason. If he comes back, you should ask him where he was all that time. Pay close attention to your answer. If you seem gloomy and the reason is not genuine, then know that you are seeing someone else. That is why he is no longer calling or texting you.

5. He’s playing hard to get

This is sad, but guys also like to play hard at times like women. He no longer texts or calls you because he thinks it will make you love him more. If you have the strength to chase it, then go ahead. He will give in eventually. However, you can also flip it. Start playing hard to get there too. You’ll have it running to you in no time. If you can’t play this game, then call him for his bluff. If he is interested in you, he will stop playing and come back to you.

6. He is waiting for you

Have you ever thought that the reason he’s not calling or texting you is that he’s waiting for you to talk to him first? This could be true if he hasn’t tried to contact you since he fell silent with you. Contrary to popular belief, there are men who do not like to take the first step. They like it when the woman is the one who starts the conversation. If you don’t talk to him first, he’ll think you’re not interested in him. So when he doesn’t text or call you, go ahead and text him or give him a call. It may take a bit of motivation to build your confidence.

7. He thought it was your turn

Have you ever been in a position where you forget you received a text message or a missed call on your phone? Well, you should know that this can happen to anyone. This could be the reason you are not calling or texting. He might be waiting for you to respond and hasn’t seen your previous text. You could have texted or called at a time when he was busy or distracted. So when he’s quiet with you, reach out to him so you know what the problem is instead of assuming it.

8. No answer

If you have a habit of using closed responses like “sure” or “okay” when you have a conversation, then you are the reason why you are no longer texting or calling. These closed responses generally kill a conversation. It will make a guy not know how to continue the conversation. Guys like to be in charge of a conversation, but they need your help to keep it going. If his answer makes him think he is bored or disinterested, he will keep quiet. It is up to you to give him a reason to call or text him.

 

9. Has second thoughts

There are times when a guy may have doubts about dating you. He becomes enraged about becoming your boyfriend and decides to disappear. This could be the reason why he is no longer calling or texting you. It’s rude of him not to tell you, but that’s how some men are sometimes.

10. He doesn’t want commitment if you don’t text or call

When a guy really loves you and wants to be in a casual relationship, but realizes it’s not what you want, he will walk away. When you’re not texting or calling, it’s their way of letting you know that you’re moving forward. Hope you get the hint and let it be. You are avoiding confrontations and having to explain yourself. Just go ahead and know that it is saving you pain in the future.

11. He was being polite

Have you ever been on a date and the guy asks for your number and you give it to him but deep down you’re afraid of talking to him again? Well, you should know that boys are the same too. A guy may go on a date with you and not be interested in taking it further. If you give a guy your number and he doesn’t call or text, just know that he was being polite when he asked. He doesn’t want to give you false hope by calling or texting you. He hopes you understand when he doesn’t text or call you.

12. He thinks you are not interested in him

When you go out on a date, have you ever wondered if the guy is interested in you? Well, you should know that women are not the only ones asking this. Guys also worry if you have any interest in them. When a guy doesn’t call or text you, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to talk to you. It’s just that he’s scared to call or text and get rejected or he’s nervous. Just give him time to gather his courage and call you or give him a sign to show that you are interested in him.

13. Wants space if he doesn’t text or call

Have you always been in contact with a guy and now he’s not texting or calling you anymore? The reason could be that you want some space. He might have felt that it is too much for him and that he needs space to breathe. If that’s the case, let it be until it’s ready. If you start asking him questions, he might freak out and take off.

14. Think that he does not fit you

When a guy dates you and in the future, he realizes that you are not what he was looking for, he will cut all contact. He doesn’t call or text as he wants to let you go and hopes you get the hint. He doesn’t know how to tell you that they’re not good together, so he just starts avoiding it. If this is the case, just go your separate ways instead of straining the relationship and hurting yourself in the process.

15. Doesn’t know how to be open

If you and a guy get along on a first date, but after that, he doesn’t text or call you, then something is up. Guys have a hard time being open about their feelings for a woman they just met. You might have liked it a lot, but you don’t know how to express your feelings. He’s afraid, to be honest, so he decides to keep quiet. If this is the case, then you can reach out to him and slowly encourage him to be honest about his feelings. It’s stressful when you’re dating a guy and he’s quiet for days. You keep wondering what you did wrong. Don’t beat yourself up too much. Just reach out to him and find out what’s wrong. If he doesn’t want to be with you, just push aside and move on.

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