9 Telltale Signs He’s Over You And Your Relationship

Ever get that nagging feeling that you just can’t get rid of it?

The feeling that he might get bored with you?

Watch out for these 9 signs he’s over you.

As women, we can notice the smallest changes in our relationships.

At least that’s true for most of us.

Changes may appear gradually, or you may wake up one morning and find that things are not quite as you left them the night before.

It happened to all of us; whether when you were still a teenager or in your thirties.

Nothing remains the same.

However, you should definitely face the situation when you suspect a change is about to happen.

It’s no use putting things dormant until someone decides to just disappear.

When trying to identify possible signs that he is over you, never let the following 9 tips pass you by:

1 . He Cares Less

Trust me when I say, a guy who wants to talk to you will call.

If he’s not calling, he really couldn’t care that much about what’s going on in his life.

Interested men will pick up the phone and find out how your day went.

So if a man stops calling or calls less, it’s always a good idea to find out if there’s a legitimate reason for this sudden change in habits.

Busy is never a good enough reason in my books.

It shouldn’t be on yours either.

2 . You Catch Him Lying

He may be lying to you due to an amazing surprise he is preparing for you, or you may find yourself in an extremely uncomfortable situation involving another woman; or worse, another man.

There is always that possibility, so don’t rule it out completely.

However, before packing your bags for a lie, always investigate first.

He may be extremely candid about it or you may find yourself in a betrayal situation.

Or worse, someone who doesn’t respect you enough, to be honest with you.

3 . Dates No More

You used to go on dates.

He used to dress really well and smell completely delicious.

Now, when you go out on a casual date, you find yourself the one making the effort – if you still go out on regular dates.

Having a romantic meal and spending money on someone you’re not that interested in is a hard thing to do.

Talk to him about this important sign that he’s over you and find out what his excuse is.

4 . He Prefers To Hang Out With Friends

Everyone has heard the term ‘bros before girls’, however, a man in love always spends time with his woman.

In fact, any grown man will understand the value of having a good woman in his life.

He will do anything to make you happy; even if it means ditching poker night to take care of you when you’re sick.

However, be reasonable.

Are you judging him based on the fact that you always want to be with him, to the point where he never sees his friends?

It’s important to keep an eye out for this particular sign that he’s over you; when put into perspective.

5 . He Forgets Your Birthday

It might not be a strong point for many men, but you’ll know how outspoken he is about forgetting any important encounter by the way he reacts after you summon him.

Does he seem to care?

Is he sorry?

Or is he dismissing you?

Any man who wants to be with you will be sincere enough to do his best to make up for the lapse in memory.

Don’t let it slide.

If it’s important to you, it must be just as important to him; even if it’s just to make you happy.

6 . You Make All The Plans

It could be that you have a lazy significant other or he is starting to lose interest in spending time with you.

It should always be a two-way street.

There is no such thing as investing 50% of yourself in any relationship.

Both individuals must be 100% dedicated; even when it comes to carrying the weight of making plans.

Don’t be fooled by the fact that you are simply a planner and he is spontaneous.

7 . You Communicate Less

Talking is one thing, but having a meaningful conversation is an entirely different game.

Remember the times when you had conversations that lasted for hours?

You could literally stay up all night talking about random things; important things.

Dreams, where do you see yourself in a few years, your favorite ice cream flavor.

The list goes on and on.

But now he barely asks how his day was.

Even when he asks, he doesn’t seem to be listening.

Good communication in a relationship is important.

Trying to spot signs that he’s over you?

Keep this in mind.

8 . He Avoids The Word Love

Love comes in many forms.

He might be the type of person who used to express this in words quite often.

However, you realize that you are missing out due to the fact that you haven’t heard it in a while.

On the contrary, you can hear it regularly, but it seems dead.

There is absolutely no emotion when he says that.

Sound familiar?

Don’t be fooled by the non-existent word love.

Saying ‘I love you’ is a big deal.

9 . The Most Obvious Sign That He’s Over You 

One of the most obvious signs that he’s over you is the fact that he’s decided to disappear overnight.

Has this ever happened to you?

It’s definitely one of the most horrible things you can experience in a relationship.

It’s not just total abandonment, it’s a total lack of respect on his part; not being honest enough to say how he feels.

You deserve to know the truth.

So if you find yourself in a situation where he has disappeared, leave him where he has placed himself.

It will come back eventually, but you don’t have to pick up the pieces where you left them when you decided to disappear.

While it has happened to all of us, that doesn’t mean it’s okay.

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships; even if he ends up breaking your heart.

Who wants to be with someone if you’re the only one dedicated to the relationship, right?

Signs that he’s over you are everywhere.

Most of us tend to avoid the desire to see him; especially if you’ve invested many years and time into something that can disappear in an instant.

However, prefer to be happy alone than with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

You deserve the best.