Do you think your man might be thinking about asking the big question?
Here are some signs that he wants to marry you and will buy that ring soon.
It’s no secret, women have strong intuition and we can usually feel what our partner is thinking.
If you suspect he’s considering marriage, you’re probably right.
Sometimes it’s hard to tell what men are thinking, especially when it comes to commitment.
If he’s doing any of these things, you might be closer to walking down the aisle than you think.
If you’re dying to know if he’s going to propose, but you don’t want to make him feel pressured, look for signs that he wants to marry you.
These 10 signs can help you navigate to where you are, even without him telling you.
If he’s doing these things, you can be sure he’s serious about the relationship.
Nobody likes being with a guy who doesn’t commit!
If he’s dragging the relationship along and isn’t treating you like a queen, find someone better.
1. Investing in Your Future
Did he offer to help you buy a car or pay for higher education?
Perhaps he offered to pay off her debt or help her pay off her debt.
If he’s starting to look to the future when your finances will come together, chances are he won’t think twice about making investments that will benefit both of you in the future together.
If he asks for your opinion when making big purchases, it’s a good sign he sees the two of you enjoying the new purchases together.
If he’s bought some really nice jewelry lately, he might be testing the waters, so to speak, to see your reaction.
Remember, guys don’t want to be rejected when they give their heart away and their whole life is on the line with the power of their one word: ‘yes’ or ‘no’.
Why not buy a Home Decor magazine, a travel magazine, or a parenting book?
I mean, don’t scare him, but give him signs that you’re ready so he can feel more comfortable.
As you dance before the engagement, you start to change as you think about what your life with him will be like and what you want it to be.
When you start planning, he also starts to notice the signs, so that’s a good thing.
2. Planning Vacations Together
Here’s a sign that he has a strong interest in you.
If he’s planning a vacation with you and your family or close friends, he’s taking you very seriously.
Even if it’s just the two of you if you can identify that he’s really trying to impress you, get to know you, and get closer, that’s a big sign, my friend.
Okay, planning, in general, is a sign that he is up to something.
Have you noticed if he’s been more thrifty lately, he’s been saving up to buy you a ring maybe?
Has he planned a vacation to a romantic spot where he might be considering proposing to you?
3. He Wants to Find Your Differences
When a man goes the extra mile to try and improve communication and perhaps suggests couples therapy, that’s a sign he wants the relationship to work.
If he’s struggling to see your perspective or has reduced some of the behaviors that get on your nerves, maybe he’s growing up and planning the future with you.
If he’s softened recently, he might be warming up to the idea of eternity.
Is he letting go of the things that really made him mad with rage?
In that case, he must be thinking deeply.
If he’s made an effort to be nice to his friends that you know he doesn’t like very much, he’s probably trying to impress you.
When a man just starts acting like a man and less like a child, it’s definitely on purpose.
A man cannot act without motivation, and if he’s been looking in the mirror lately and getting in touch with his inner truth, he’ll know something is up.
If you’re reading this article and things are making sense, congratulations, it could be about to change your entire life.
4. He Doesn’t Get Tired Of You
Does he invite you every night?
Did he talk about moving in together?
Doesn’t he see time pass by on his side?
Most likely, he is in love and thinking about the next step.
If you’ve been together for a while, at least six months, chances are he’s been thinking about it, even if he hasn’t mentioned it.
If he chooses to go out with you Instead of going out with his friends, he may be ready to dive right into your relationship.
If he is giving you compliments and seems genuinely happy, this man is probably very pleased with you and thinking about this big decision.
Did he put pictures of you everywhere, in his wallet and in his office?
Does he call you and text you declaring himself?
Does he ask you out on dates and surprise you with fun things?
When a guy is really excited about you, he won’t be able to stop.
Men aren’t so good at hiding it.
5. He Introduces You To Everyone He Knows
Here’s a big sign.
Has he introduced you to all the people who are important to him?
This includes best friends, co-workers, and family.
If he’s not ashamed of the relationship and is making sure everyone knows you are a couple, chances are you have a committed man who will be on his knees in no time.
You will learn how he behaved in the past; maybe you’re the first one he introduced to everyone.
Generally, guys are very cautious about bringing girls into the circle of trust.
But when you walk in, it’s a big sign that he loves you.
Pay attention to how he introduces you.
When he speaks, does he praise you, and is he proud of you?
Does he hold your hand in front of them?
This man literally wants to cling to you for the rest of his life.
6. Meet His Parents
Men are funny creatures.
Some of them will take their parents on the first date (yes, I’ve seen that happen), some will introduce you to their parents in the first week of dating, and others are more protective and wait a little longer.
Whatever the case, if he’s introduced you to his parents, that’s a sign that he’s taking you seriously.
If he was terrified of meeting his parents and was suddenly excited about the idea, like it was no big deal, this man’s mind changed.
Is he asking to meet your parents and siblings?
Is he asking what his parents like, trying to get to know them and take their side?
Is he trying to score points?
If you’ve never been married before, you may not even realize what you’re doing when a man is serious about the relationship.
Don’t think he’s being nice because he likes you.
A man will not embrace a woman’s family unless he is thinking they will become his family.
7. Looking for Houses
Has he become obsessed with seeing houses lately?
In that case, he might be thinking of wedding bells, my dear.
Generally, guys don’t buy houses to live with girls they don’t take seriously.
If he’s been looking for houses with you, he’s probably thinking about moving in with you.
Is this getting you excited?
Getting nervous?
Did he start talking about furniture or decor?
Has he become obsessed with finding the job that will give them both a great lifestyle?
Is he talking a lot about “Numbers”?
8. Talking About Children
Yes, this is also a great sign.
If he keeps talking about how he wants to be a father or what a great mother you would make, his mind will be on the future and he’ll see you guys starting a family.
If you’ve noticed him talking about babies or talking about a friend’s children, this man’s primal instincts are kicking in; he’s looking for something long-term.
Now, if you’re at the mall, and he walks into the kids’ section, you can almost guarantee his mind is planning kids.
Has he bought self-help books recently?
When men think about becoming fathers, they usually try to improve themselves and prepare.
In fact, when they are getting ready for marriage, they often do too.
Maybe he quit a bad habit, cleaned up his diet, started an exercise plan, or made an effort to get a better job.
If he’s become more responsible lately, he might be considering settling down.
9. He’s Very Open With You
When a man becomes vulnerable, it’s a good sign.
If he suddenly starts sharing awkward moments, feelings, and other sensitive things, he may actually have serious plans with you.
When a man trusts you, he behaves differently.
He lets his guard down and reveals his stupid or less attractive side.
Remember to be sensitive to him when he opens up so he doesn’t feel like you’re going to attack him if he lets his guard down.
Try not to judge him and see him as a human being who is learning life lessons and doing the best he can.
10. He’s Extremely Attentive
Did you notice that he was being very nice to you lately?
Is he noticing when you change your hair or compliment your clothes?
Did he offer to take you out to dinner and pick you up flowers?
Maybe he stopped leaving a mess in the living room or not forgetting to lower the toilet seat.
When a man starts being a gentleman and stops being a boyfriend, he is seriously thinking about something.
Did he become more supportive of your ideas or ask about your goals?
Why is he evaluating his five-year plan?
What is he trying to find out?
If you feel like your guy is trying to see if your goals are aligned, this guy is evaluating your maturity as a wife.
If he’s not doing any of these things, that doesn’t mean he’s not serious about you.
If you’re wondering, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking.
If you want to marry this man, you want to be open about your feelings, right?
If you’re really curious, see what his thoughts are.
What if you never asked and spent years with someone just trying to “read the signs” and not wanting to scare them away.
Maybe he’s not looking for marriage and you can avoid the heartache from the start.
Don’t pressure him by saying something like ‘when do you want to get married?’ but see if it’s something he’s considering.
Open and sincere relationships have the best chance of succeeding.
Don’t be afraid to speak up and be open.
When you feel his energy focused on you, you’ll know something is up.
If he’s remembering what you say, listening intently, and canceling football with friends so you can have a movie night, this man has a ring on his head.