Are you scared of the awkward silence?
Are you constantly talking about the same old topic until he gets bored?
You may be in love with each other, but if you don’t have news to talk about, you’re heading into troubled waters.
When your relationship becomes boring, you start to walk away from it quickly. The same will happen to him.
He’ll start to fade, and that’s not good for two people who love each other.
Chin up!
When you ask the right questions, you create more connection.
Things to Talk to Your Boyfriend:
Topic 1 – Your Weekend Plans
This is a topic you can bring up any day of the week.
Even on Monday, you can always focus on what you’re going to do over the weekend.
This kind of conversation is exciting and fun, something we look forward to, which helps to get through the week.
Topic 2 – Praise Him
Everyone likes to hear nice things about themselves.
By talking about the things you like about your boyfriend, you will make him feel good.
Tell him how much you appreciate him, whether it’s his gentle nature or his soft heart that made you fall in love with him.
Topic 3 – Normal Concerns
It’s always good to get things off your chest, and your boyfriend should be aware of the things in your life that are bothering you.
Not only will it help explain your temperament at any given time, but it will also make him feel special because you are reminding him that you love and trust him.
Ask him if anything worries him and let him know when things are bothering you.
Being there for each other, listening and not judging, is key to creating an extra special bond that will stand the test of time.
Just don’t make the mistake of dwelling on your concerns, because doing so will do damage quickly.
Acknowledge, discuss and move on.
Topic 4 – Time at Work
Without a doubt, there will always be something to talk about when it comes to work.
Every day is new and there are often new challenges that you need to get off your chest.
When you talk about your professional life, you are taking steps to understand each other better.
The good news is that there will always be something new to talk about when it comes to work.
Topic 5 – Deep And Dark Secrets
Well, they don’t have to be literally dark secrets, but it’s always fun to trust the man you love.
This helps to deepen your intimacy and strengthen your foundation of trust.
Try making a game, where you reveal a new secret to each other.
This is quite fun!
Topic 6 – TV Drama
There are so many shows on TV that are enough to make your head spin.
So there will always be something new to talk about with your favorite shows.
Topic 7 – Eating Out and Eating at Home
We all have to eat to live.
Even if your boyfriend isn’t interested in your amazing cooking, you can always ask him what he likes best and maybe what he wants for dinner.
I’m sure there are some good restaurants you’ve been dying to try.
Ask your partner if he has anything on his mind.
This could also lead to a special weekend date or a night out on the town somewhere new.
This is part of what keeps the relationship exciting.
Topic 8 – Your Dreams
It’s something some men might laugh at, but the only way to find your true happiness is to dream and believe that dreams do come true.
Let him in on your visions and goals , even the most foolish ones.
It shows your partner how special you are and maybe he can step on board and help you achieve your dreams.
Topic 9 – Escape Plans
This is something experts say helps keep a relationship exciting and alive.
Don’t be afraid to plan your weekend vacation and vacation months in advance.
Pluck the dates off the calendar and highlight them, so you have something to look forward to together.
Think of it as mental therapy.
Everyone needs to escape their everyday life every now and then to recharge and gain perspective.
Topic 10 – Interests and Hobbies
What you do in your spare time is something your boyfriend should be interested in.
Let him know your thoughts and desires.
Chances are you will have some interests or hobbies similar to his that you can get excited about.
Topic 11 – Family and Friends
In any relationship, it’s important to know as much as possible about each other’s friends.
It helps you connect on a deeper level and get to know more about what the two of you do, your tolerances and preferences.
Topic 12 – The Moments of Pride
Ask your boyfriend to tell you about times in his life when he was very proud.
It could be childhood memories or a promotion at work.
This will bring happy moments and if he feels happiness by your side he will get closer.
Topic 13 – Open the Door to Help
When you love and care for someone, you should be interested in their general well-being.
It makes sense that you would want to help him in any way you can.
Ask if he needs help with anything.
It reminds him that you are there for him, which can only make him more grateful to have you in his life.
Topic 14 – Discuss Your Plans for 5 Years from Now
This one applies if you’ve been with him for a while.
Don’t talk about the future if you’re only in your second or third week together.
So if you’ve been dating for a while, you should talk about where you see yourselves as a couple up front.
When you share goals, they strengthen your relationship and provide direction for both of you to work towards those goals.
Topic 15 – Improving You
By opening up to your boyfriend and letting him in and seeing your flaws, in the areas you want to improve, you are helping your partner to relax and maybe not be so uptight about the things he doesn’t like about himself.
This will help him break down his own walls, because you’re showing him that it’s okay to tear down your walls.
Topic 16 – Issues Between Four Walls
This one is always interesting.
First, avoid commenting on something that might offend him.
You know men are very sensitive about their performance in bed and there are ways to let him know he can improve.
Under no circumstances should you sweep bed problems under the rug.
When you do, both of you know it will come back to haunt you.
Keep the door open so the two of you know you can talk about anything together, even the difficult things in the bedroom.
Topic 17 – General Well-being
It’s not easy to talk about personal health issues, many of which are downright embarrassing; however, this is a great way to get closer to a couple.
You need to know this kind of stuff, because it’s important in the big picture of good long-term health.
Topic 18 – Giving Advice
Sharing advice is an excellent way to learn more about your boyfriend.
Don’t be afraid to ask him what he thinks about certain things in his life.
It’s important that you take an interest in what’s going on in each other’s lives.
Topic 19 – The Past
When you’re committed to a special guy, it’s always exciting and often funny to talk about the trouble you’ve gotten yourself into.
Also talk to him about your childhood and adolescence so he can better understand you.
Let him know your dreams, wants and desires and discuss if you are on the right path.
Topic 20 – Simple Preferences
When you choose to talk about each other’s ever-changing likes and dislikes, you move forward in connection as a couple.
The more you know about the guy you’re in love with, the better.
Topic 21 – Goals Together
I can guarantee that you won’t have the same goals as him, but you will at least have some that are on the same wavelength.
Open the door to discuss your goals and see where it fits.
Find a way to create goals together, and you’ll make it work in the end.
Common interests are a big part of what makes a relationship healthy forever.
Topic 22 – Your Opinion
If you really love this man, you should never hold back, even if he doesn’t want to hear what you have to say.
Say what you feel, and it will help him show, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he is the man you want and deserve.
Final Words
If you want your relationship to grow, you’ll have to know how to talk to him.
Sometimes you will have to ask difficult questions.
Other times, to keep the conversation going, you may want to have a list of tips on your phone or bag.
That way, you don’t have to think about things to talk about because you’re prepared.