No one can run from a broken heart.
We all get hurt at some point in our lives and it sucks.
Breakups suck for many reasons.
But what hurts the most is rejection.
You wanted to be with this person, but they didn’t want to be with you anymore.
It’s normal for your ego to get hurt and your heart to break.
Especially when you dream all your life of your own happy story and a fairy tale ending.
It’s normal for you to feel bitter and broken.
You want him back, even if it’s not the best thing to do, but in that frame of mind, you can’t think rationally.
It’s normal for you to want him to get hurt too.
You want to hope he’s suffering too, but deep down you know you’re much worse off than he is.
You’ll analyze your break up a million times trying to figure out why he dumped you, why he decided to go on with life without you, but you just can’t think of anything, because for you, there’s no one…
He just lost interest in you.
Whether you’re still interested in him or just want to make him pay for leaving you, there are ways to get there.
If you insult him and yell at him every time you see him, he’ll thank God for breaking up with you because you’re the relationship freak, so take the right path and do it the smart way.
How to Make Him Regret Breaking Up With You
1. Tell Him What You’ve Been Doing
So instead of yelling when you find him, try a different approach.
Fill his head with all the wonderful things you’ve been doing since you broke up.
And don’t forget to mention those words ‘since we broke up’ or ‘since our breakup’.
This will get his attention and he will really understand that you did all these things after you were done.
Don’t hold back to spare his feelings.
Remember that he also hurt you.
But anyway, do it with class – as long as you don’t fall short of your principles.
2. Keep Your Happiness And Confidence
The way you feel is reflected in the way you look.
If you’re sad, your face looks sad, your eyes don’t smile, and your smile is upside down.
People can sense when you are hurting or when your confidence is almost non-existent.
Plus, people can see it, too, when you’re happy and confident.
Go out with your friends and move on with your life.
Make him see that the breakup didn’t affect you, even if it did.
He doesn’t need to know that.
Your positive attitude and self-confidence will make him regret his decision to leave you.
It’s up to you to do something about it.
3. The No Contact Rule
The no contact rule is one of the most important things after a breakup.
Not only will it help you to improve much sooner, but it will also spark a dose of curiosity in him.
He will definitely wonder what’s up with you and how you are doing.
The more unhappy you are, the bigger his ego will be, because the fact that he has abandoned you and you are unhappy makes it seem like you can’t live without him and that makes him feel important.
Do not contact your ex.
It will help her with the healing and drive him crazy.
He will probably regret leaving you.
4. Make a Renovation
This is always a great way to start over.
If he sees you after he dumps you and you look absolutely beautiful, he regrets it.
He turns into an idiot that made that woman amazing.
So, redo your hair, go shopping, and shed those extra pounds (if any). Just to make his jaw drop.
You will be an absolute winner.
Even if you don’t want to get back together with him, you’ll make him regret letting you go.
5. Post Photos
So social media was created for situations like this and similar things.
It was made to show what I have and you don’t.
So people post pictures, the places they go and it’s just to brag about what they look like and where they’ve been.
So don’t be silly and use this great potential that social networks have given you to post pictures of you and your friends having fun.
He will probably regret losing you after seeing how great you look and how beautiful you look.
6. Mention Your Career
When you find him, subtly indicate that you’re kicking ass at your job.
Having a great career is important, and maybe even more so if he’s not as successful as you are.
I mean, you’re not going to make fun of him or rub his nose at the fact that you’re doing better than him, but casually mention how happy you are doing what you do and mention some new opportunities or whatever.
Just try not to overdo it, because it might seem like you’re trying too hard.
7. Spend Time With Other People
They don’t have to be men, but it would be better if they were.
Hanging out with different people to make him see that you really have something special that interests and intrigues others, and he’s an idiot for missing that.
Make him question his decision by harmlessly flirting with other men.
You will definitely mess with some feelings in your ex.
Maybe he even regrets leaving you after seeing that other guys are interested in you.
Maybe he starts to see you from a different perspective.