Dating is a difficult process, especially these days.
We have many ways to meet new people, but when you meet that special someone, you’ll want to make sure they feel the same way about you.
You’ve Discovered You Have A Connection With Someone Special, But You’re Looking For Signs That He Wants Something Serious.
Luckily, you’ve found this article, because you’re about to learn the top 7 signs!
Plus, I’ll tell you how to avoid getting stuck in a “friends with benefits” situation with this guy!
Why Is It Important to Know If He Wants Something Serious?
The best advice you should take is to measure someone’s actions more than their words.
I say this a lot because you will know when a man is serious with you by his actions and the way he treats you.
If a man has one foot in and one foot out in his involvement with you, then why would you try to convince him to come in with both feet?
This is where many relationships fail because people are constantly trying to prove their self-worth to others.
It also diminishes the attraction and desire of another person.
What happens more often than you might think is that if a man isn’t being serious about his actions, it will make you question his intentions.
Instead of chasing him, walk away and let him feel like he might lose you.
A man needs to know that you value yourself enough to put yourself first when he’s not giving you a relationship.
It’s important to know if he wants something serious because if you keep at a pace with no relationship status, the two of you could open up to commitment issues and have a significant amount of miscommunication.
So, to avoid these problems, it’s important to have clear boundaries of communication with each other and keep focusing on communicating with each other so that you don’t question this man’s intentions to commit to you in the future.
Now that you know how to set the right tone with communication, I’m going to give you tips on what actions to pay attention to when a man wants to be serious with you and take things to the next level.
Many of these cues show that he is connecting with you emotionally and is not being selfish, he is wanting the partnership and moving to the next level with you and the relationship.
Detecting The 7 Signs A Man Wants To Be With You!
If only we could read minds, wouldn’t we?
Then this guy comes along, you guys have a lot of fun together and you hope he wants to have a serious relationship with you…
But how can you be sure if he hasn’t said anything to you?
Well, Here Are The Top Ten Indicators That This Guy Is Wanting To Get More Serious With You And Build A Solid Relationship!
1 – He Makes The Effort
If a man is really involved in this relationship, he will do his best to see you and get in touch with you.
He’ll call and text you, and he’ll try to make plans to see you regularly.
Always taking the initiative.
In order to have a serious relationship with someone, you need to make sure that he is making an effort and is interested in you.
He must make time for you and make the effort to see you!
2 – You’re Not The One Who Takes The First Step All The Time
If you’re wondering, “ Does he want to take things forward? “, pay attention if you always send the first message, call or suggest a date.
A guy who is interested in you will at least meet you halfway, if not more!
If this guy gives more than he receives, it’s a good sign that he‘s serious about something.
3 – He’s Well Outside His Comfort Zone
For things to start getting serious, you need to invite this guy into your world.
That means he’ll get to know your friends and family and you’ll be able to include him in your favorite activities.
So pay attention to how he acts when he’s around people who are important to you.
Is he distant and uninterested or does he know everyone actively?
If you’ve invited him to come along to see an exhibition of your favorite artist or take a hike along your favorite trail, does he seem interested (even if he’s just asking you questions to learn more about you), or seems like he’s bored and Are you counting the seconds to go?
A man who is serious about things will be fascinated by you and the things that make you happy in your life…
If he’s being challenged to step out of his comfort zone and he’s reacting positively, he’s definitely interested!
4 – He Opens Up to You
Generally speaking, guys don’t like to feel vulnerable, which means they don’t open up to anyone.
Also, sometimes guys try to remain a closed book simply because they don’t want the girl they’re dating to get attached…
So if you’re wondering, ” Is he serious about me ?”, Take A Look At How Much He Shares With You.
If he tells you things about his personal life, his aspirations, his family, and maybe even things he hasn’t told anyone else, you can be sure that you mean something to him and he’s letting you into his world.
5 – If He’s Talking About Being Exclusive, He’s Taking You Seriously
This one is pretty obvious.
If this guy is telling you that he wants the two of you to be exclusive and you know he’s not seeing anyone else, he’s serious about you.
The only thing to keep in mind here is that you have to be careful to pay attention to a person’s actions versus their words.
If you’re seriously dating a guy, he’s not messing around with anyone else behind your back, especially when he’s told you he wants to be exclusive!
6 – He Deletes Your Profiles On Dating Sites And Dating Apps
This one lines up with the previous sign, but one of the biggest signs that a man wants to be with you, and no one but you, is when he deletes your dating apps.
Nowadays, dating apps connect you to thousands of people and it would be very easy for him to keep exploring the other possibilities but if you know he has deleted everything then he wants a serious relationship with you.
7 – He Wants A Serious Relationship If He’s Talking About The Future With You
If a guy can see you in his future and is talking about it, he wants a serious relationship.
He’s connecting the two of you and he’s introducing you to his friends and family, and he’s thinking of you long term.
When you see that this guy is able to involve you in his personal life in a way that seems to want to keep you around and get closer to you, then you are on your way to a serious relationship!
Making plans with you is fantastic, remember that your actions still need to match his words.
If that’s the case, then you’re golden.
What to Do When You’re Not Seeing the Signs He Wants Something Serious?
If you’re feeling like this is turning into one hell of a colorful friendship or he’s putting you in the “friends” category and you want more, you’ll need to change a few things.
Men love a challenge, and if he’s getting everything too easily, he may have lost the incentive to pursue a serious relationship with you.
The fact is if you’re just getting to know each other and you’re already giving him all the elements of a relationship (time, energy,, etc.), what incentive does he have to do so?
How much effort does it take to establish a serious relationship?
Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?
If you want him to take you seriously, there are three things you can start doing.
He has to know that your time is precious!
First, make sure he understands that your time is precious.
If you want him to take you seriously, make sure you’re not always going to give in to suit his needs.
He has to make an effort too, and it’s important that you give him the opportunity to make an effort!
Many of my clients fear that if they don’t take the first step, the guy will create distance and then disappear.
But if he doesn’t get a chance to miss you or feels like he needs to make the effort to see you and get to know you better, he’ll start to lose interest.
Remember, men like the challenge and if everything is handed to them on a platter, they won’t do anything to chase it.
You Have To Create Memories!
Generally speaking, when two people are friends of color, they usually develop a routine and stick to that routine.
It will become monotonous and not be very inspiring for this guy.
Instead, try to change things up, go out, and have fun together.
Try new things and go to new places.
Prioritize the pleasure of spending time together outside the bedroom!
As always, I’m always here to help.
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