11 Signs He’s Not In Love — You’re Just Convenient

It’s time to let him go.

Falling in love with someone is an amazing feeling, but you should never want to force that feeling.

If you’re dating someone who makes you ask about their relationship status constantly, it’s time to think.

You deserve a man who wants to be with you and only you.

Here are the signs that the guy you’re dating or dating isn’t taking you seriously.

1. He’s Always Busy.

He must want to spend a lot of free time with you.

And if he’s busy, he should make time for you.

2. He Does Not Introduce You To His Friends Or Family.

If he’s serious about you, he might want to “flaunt off” you to the people close to him.

3. He Doesn’t Open Up To You.

If you’ve tried asking him about his past and he resists and doesn’t say anything, maybe he probably has a hard time opening up to letting people into his life.

4. It’s Always You Who Plan Dates.

He should put as much effort into the relationship as you do.

A relationship is a two-way street.

5. He Only Texts, Never Calls.

It’s a show of effort when your boyfriend or the guy you’re seeing does more than send a quick text message.

It also shows transparency — he can openly tell you what he’s planning, rather than hiding behind words.

6. He Leaves You Out Of His Plans For The Future.

When he talks about events in the future, he rarely includes you in them.

He should think about your future as a couple as well.

7. He Still Talks To His Ex-Girlfriends.

A big red flag is when he still talks to ex-girlfriends and women he’s dated.

If he’s serious about you, those past relationships are no longer worth keeping.

8. He Avoids All Forms Of Affection In Public.

Some men don’t like to show much affection in public, and that’s okay!

But if he doesn’t even put his arms around your shoulders or take your hand, he’s showing that he doesn’t want to be seen with you like you two are dating.

9. He Cancels Plans Often.

That means disregarding you and your feelings.

Canceling a plan or a date means disregarding you and your feelings.

He must give importance to his schedule.

10. You Don’t Feel Very Good When You’re Together.

You should feel absolutely comfortable and happy when you’re with him.

If you’re filling your mind with questions and concerns about your relationship with him, that’s not a good thing.

11. He Doesn’t Take Time To Get To Know You Better.

You deserve respect.

You deserve to feel important.

The man you’re dating must want to get to know you better, and if he doesn’t, he’s not worth it.